And we're up...

Clearly I jumped to conclusions in my last post.

I was literally beating myself up all day and night only to have Trump text me the next afternoon and CALL me the next evening.

You heard right. Trump has set an all-time record. He has initiated contact with me (count 'em) THREE times since I contacted him. And he even complimented me twice! I think I'm in shock. Which is ridiculous. Why should I be in shock? Trump should call me and text me right? Yes, of course. I'm just amazed because he actually did!

He texted me to tell me that he saw a pic of me on Facebook and that he liked it. And we chatted back and forth. I didn't flood his inbox (yay! point for me!) aaaannnnnddddd I offered to end the conversation first (score!) and then I called him my favorite frat and he called me his favorite Soror! Whether or not he was being sincere is yet to be determined, but I am assuming so. And I think I smiled for the rest of the day.

Then he called me that night (around 1am) to tell me a story about something that happened to him. I find some satisfaction that he wants to share good news with me. We chatted for a little bit. We talked about family and he wanted to know when I am coming home (the verdict is still out on whether we'll actually hang out -- I'm crossing my fingers for a real dinner/movie date). Then he apologized about having to hop off the phone because he reached his destination. I was knocked out when he called me so I didn't mind. Needless to say, I dreamed about him.

So, I guess this is a sign that I need to stop tripping. I am going to continue my lack of contact -- at least until he calls me on it. I doubt he has noticed. I have noticed though. I have noticed that I am a LOT less stressed when I am not second-guessing and going crazy over why he hasn't responded to my call or a text. It is so freeing! And I get the pleasant surprise of him contacting me for a change!

My mother thinks I'm playing games, but she has no idea what I have been through with this man. I'm not playing games. I just am using a different strategy to reach my ultimate goal: either get with him or get over him.

So this is day four (I think) and I am feeling great! We have a long way to go as far as me determining how he really feels about me. It is SO hard to tell. But at least he isn't holding my ridiculousness the other day against me. Yay!

On a side note: He knows I'm not on Facebook so I wonder if I am missing anything like cryptic statuses or flirty posts on my "friends" walls..... That's dumb. I need to stop.